Mrs. Bradley

 

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I didn’t win the merit award for English my sophomore year at Deming High School. After the awards assembly, I cried in the girls’ bathroom, wiping my eyes and nose with a brown paper towel and trying to explain to my best friend why it mattered. I think she left when I said, “You just don’t understand.”

The halls were quiet. School would be out in a week. I had to pick up my trumpet from the band room in the main building.

I ran into Mrs. Bradley in the hall. Or maybe I sought her out. She had come to the school a few days into my freshman year, relieving our overcrowded English class. I remember feeling shafted when the forty of us were split down the middle, and I was in the half that had to go to the new teacher. She played guitar. She opened her classroom at lunchtime so students could jam with her. She taught us “Day by Day” and “Prepare Ye the Way” from Godspell. I didn’t know what Godspell was until years later when I was in college and our church choir sang “Prepare Ye the Way” to sound the beginning of Lent. I only knew that I loved to sing, and she encouraged me. She had a voice like Joni Mitchell, a comparison that comes to me only now, because then my musical world was Whitney Houston, Miami Sound Machine, INXS and, per my older brothers’ more refined tastes, the Beatles, the Eagles, Supertramp, Queen, and Earth, Wind and Fire. She was a widow and the first teacher I ever knew who had traveled around the world. She showed us slides from Bali, the Taj Mahal, maybe Europe. One of us asked how she was able to take the trip. We were the children of grocery store clerks, delivery truck drivers, elementary school teachers, bank tellers, and postal workers, and no one we knew had ever been to Bali. “Life insurance,” she said, and then almost to herself, “life insurance money is hard to spend.”

I loved Mrs. Bradley. She was my freshman English and junior history teacher. In her class I kept journals and wrote stories. She had a Far Side Off the Wall calendar on her desk and would allow no one to look ahead to the next day. She was the first adult to tell me about the hole in the ozone layer. She had a bulletin board with dye cut letters spelling out Ziggy Marley lyrics, “Tomorrow people, where is your past?” She was cool, but not that immature/no boundaries/acts like one of the students kind of cool that I distrusted in some of the other teachers. She was smart, funny, sure of herself, and because she was all those things, she didn’t need us to like her; and for all of those reasons, we did like her. 

When she asked me what was wrong, my tears started again. I hiccupped, “I didn’t win the merit award.”

She could have told me to worry less, to not take myself so seriously. She could have dismissed my very real fear in that moment that I would never leave Deming, that I’d marry an ugly man and end up living in my parents’ garage. She didn’t. She looked at me, and more importantly, she saw me. She understood that I was sixteen years old and, for whatever reason, needed to prove my worth through my accomplishments, needed to prove that I was smart and capable. And when you’re sixteen, and you believe your grades and your awards are your only ticket out of this town that feels smaller each year, it does you no good to hear that you should relax and enjoy life more.

“I know this doesn’t mean much to you now,” she said, “but when you get to where you’re going, a merit award from Deming High School won’t mean squat.”

Thank you, Mrs. Bradley. You were right.  

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  1. That is really beautiful, Michelle. I loved the vignettes and of course, the ending.

  2. Wow, great story! We need lots of Mrs. Bradley’s in the lives of kids:-)


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